All fun and games

 I am always so excited to learn how many local places in Richmond are giving back! Who would have thought buying a simple "summer fun" game like corn hole would do something as amazing as support a local charity!

Corn Hole is one of my families favorite games. We always set it up in the front yard on hot nights, grab some glass bottle cokes and play for hours.
We were so sad one afternoon to find that our corn hole set had been taken from our shed one night...

BBBBUUUUT
SOOOO HAPPY to find out that we could support our neighbors in need by buying a (super nice, I might add) Corn Hole set from C.P. Dean, Billiards and Gameroom Authority, Founded in 1886 by C. Preston Dean, a woodworker of great skill.

When you buy a corn hole set from C.P Dean, you are supporting a local boys ministry located in Church Hill, Richmond VA. This program is working to give struggling kids a hand up by providing a safe environment and community to be apart of. While giving them something constructive to do with their time. Offering a chance to learn good work ethic, how to handle challenges, teaching to work together and separate!
WAY TO GO C.P. DEAN!!!
9071 W. Broad Street
Henrico, VA 23294

Do you know any local businesses that are doing something like this?

Pass on the Neighbor to Neighbor mission!

Partner April 2013

Each month Hetrick Painting, Inc and Hope Provided partner with a local business to support the Richmond area. 

Last April we partnered with "M & S Auto Repair" of Cary Town Richmond. Owner, Wagih Sharoubim has a huge heart for community, and has help HPI in so many ways! He does excellent work, and we are so proud to be partner with him and his business!

                                               2422 Wet Cary Street, Richmond Va, 23220 
                                                                    804.271.2262

April Showers

Imagine it's all gone. 

Everything. 

                                                   

  TV's, ipod, laptops, passport...

Your cloths...favorite dress, or that shirt you bought on vacation that fits just right. 

       How about the things that can't be replaced?

Pictures...the ones taken on your wedding day, the ones taken the day your son was born.

Gifts from best friends or siblings.

The home you grew up in.....

It's easy to forget the terrible storm called Sandy, that hit our neighbors in New York this past fall. Not being an immediate effect on our Richmond community, I know, I myself have not given much thought about it recently...But when Hope Provided Initiative made a trip up this past month to help in the relief, we were face to face with the reality that the devastation of physical and emotional damage is still great....

 

Over the month of April, Hope Provided was privileged to partner with several organizations, including; YWAM (Youth with a Mission), Richmond Christian Fellowship and Third Day Missions out of Stanton Island New York. We assisted with the cleanup from hurricane Sandy (which hit this past October 2012.) Daniel Delgado, Who heads up Third Day Missions, has dedicated himself full-time to this overwhelming need in New York.

Most of us were shocked by the physical damage that still effects so many streets, homes and business. But for the families here, it's just a common view as they pick up the pieces and try to regain some sense of normalcy. One victim of Sandy put it best when he said:          

"I just had to laugh at the mess, because you can't cry, you just have to take things the way they come and do the best you can."

It was so encouraging to see so much community, represented from all over the world, assisting in this tragedy. Remembering how connected we ALL really are. We were so blessed to be apart of this for a time. 

       

Please continue to pray for the victims and their families of the 2012 Hurricane Sandy. Anything helps when it comes to support. Maybe donate your time this summer by committing to help just one family. Or you can support your neighbors by giving financially. But never under estimate the power of prayer and how much it means to people when you not only say you will....but actually do. 

             

There were several countries representing this great effort. For more information on what is going on in New York go to revdelgado@missions.org

Our Partner's

             Our Partners

The Hope Provided Project

If every middle class family took on one neighbor to help this year, I believe we could completely end homelessness, and end depression in a widespread area of our community. This year we could change lives. Sure that sounds sweet….but who's actually going to get around to doing that. It started with an idea . . . but isn’t that always how these things start? The hard part was putting into words what we were doing. Organizing the heart behind something we had already been kind of doing all along.

Dad always had a huge heart for the Richmond community. I remember him mentioning the idea of turning his painting company into a "one for one" mission by, "giving a percentage of our income to helping our neighbors”. I loved the idea but the timing (for whatever reason) was just "off" for me. I remembered that conversation from two years ago this past Christmas break and brought it up to dad over one of our 'Father- daughter date nights'. Dad's eyes lit up the way they do when he's super excited about something I'm saying or doing.

"I think this is the right time," he said, assuring me. "I've really been praying for confirmation and I feel like this conversation is it." Before you freak out and think this is another one of those “religious blogs about helping people, blah, blah, blah. . .” Give me a chance. I have this crazy thought that this has nothing to do with what you believe, and everything to do with that fact that we ALL are a part of something so much bigger then the same routine of life we live every day.

Well, there it is. HPI, Hetrick Painting, Inc. will now sister with HPI, Hope Provided Initiative. It hasn’t been long since we’ve put this whole idea into action. The actual helping part was something that came pretty naturally to my family and I. Missions trips and local acts of service have always been part of our family life. We LOVE people and community. It’s the nitty-gritty “office” work, the necessities to any successful organization, that I struggle with on a daily basis. The other hard part is the whole “When Helping Hurts” concept. This is when we step (more like trample), all over someone’s personal space and assume we know what’s best for them just because their lives look different from us. This brings me to the REAL topic, the core of Hope Provided

What we're about:

We are not a charity, ‘do gooders’ or in some mindset that we are so much better off that we feel we should give financially “until it hurts”.

While there is nothing wrong with giving financially, (in SO many ways money helps) It's just, I believe there’s a different mission for HopeProvided and that there is more to our lives than the simplicity of our “once in a while contribution to the needy”.

The truth is, I need this more than it probably needs me. I need to be reminded of the reality of the world all around me. Let me explain…

 I spent a year “finding myself” in Johannesburg, South Africa and Port-Au-Prince, Haiti back in 2010. The desperation of the human race was never so real to me. But what was most shocking to me after this experience was to learn that, Africa and Haiti, were everywhere. And it wasn’t necessarily taking on a different form either. Desperate, depressed, lost and hurt people were all over the place. I know we can all get a little fed up with the man on the street holding the sign “hungry, anything helps.” Some of us think “yeah, sure buddy, those shoes look brand new and you're clean shaven, you're doing just fine.” Or “I just gave change to your friend a few blocks back.” Or some will give, give, give and give… But is any of this solving the actual problem? Whether or not the guy holding the sign is ‘actually’ homeless or whether or not we are giving him money, the bottom line is: Why does he feel like he has to stand there? Why is it day after day? Why aren’t things getting better? Could it be the problem is not the hundreds of homeless people, or the countless broken families?

Maybe I am the problem. Maybe I am so caught up with myself that I’m convinced I don’t have time to REALLY stop and help. I’m so consumed with this “American Dream” for my family and myself, that I’m ignoring what makes America such an incredible and unique country; Freedom and community. I’m finding, more and more, that these issues are a simple problem of never experiencing real relentless love and not so much about money…. It shouldn’t matter if you’re religious or a humanitarian. What should matter is that we are all neighbors, that without all of us, we don’t have this “dream life’ we all seem to be striving towards. These are real people with a past, a present and a hope for a future. I want to get to the bottom of these issues. I want Richmond to be the strongest community in America. The most selfless. That’s what changes things. Our simple little choices to take time for the things that ACTUALLY matter. To care about the root of the problems, and care about finding the solutions. If every middle class family took on one neighbor to help this year, we could completely end homelessness, depression, loneliness and helplessness in our community. And change both their lives and our own.

So here’s the challenge. By working alongside a local business once a month (to promote small businesses in the Richmond area) and helping a neighbor in need, until it’s complete, HPI and Hope Provided plan on changing things. Neighbor to Neighbor.

Thanks for reading! For updates on what we're doing in Richmond or any questions or comments, visit our Facebook page or contact me at: Kourtney@hetrickpainting.com

Half Way There

I realize this is a bit long, and most of you are far to busy to read all of it, so as a disclaimer, This is an encouraging update. A chance for me to share with you where all your money, prayers, love and support have been going the past (almost 2) months.  Thank you so much for the privilege of having a community, a body in christ, back home to write to. I love you, I love that your apart of all this, I love that we are all working together for God's kingdom. Your hands send my feet. Thank you for all you do in my life.

Now that I've come to the closing of week 6, I feel like I can update you all properly on the logistics, "trials", good times and what to expect next....

Walking into this, I think I put a lot of expectations on God and myself. Expectations on what i thought it meant to come back to YWAM and what this must have meant for my future.
....But the awesome thing about serving a God that loves me is the joy we have in making each other happy.
I started putting all the things God is to me, in the beginning of verses and started look harder at my life from that perspective. For example, Jeremiah 29:11
"For I the Lord (Your creator, your advocate, your protector, provider, your very best friend, your Father, Daddy, brother, Beloved, Soul mate.) Have Amazing plans for you."

When I started to break down who these people are in my life; " My Father and Best friend" I started to think how both those people in my life always want me to be happy, always want me to grow, only ever want the best for me, and think I deserve the best...when i started praying with that in my mind, I started to connect with a God who only wanted to talk to me on the most intimate level.  It's easy to see why Song of Solomon calls this "A divine romance."
All this to say, the future plans I THOUGHT I'd have at this point are not at all where I feel God leading me.
This school has, surprisingly enough, been one of the hardest things I've done in missions so far. ( I keep thinking, "Send me back to a bush in Africa!") But its also been one of the most beneficial. (I guess the hard things always are.) L God has been speaking to me so much about His heart for long term missions and what it looks like to "make His kingdom come here on earth." ....and Its not at all what I expected. Learning that pretty much everything you've been doing on the mission field for the past few years was doing more harm then help....was a tough, humbling pill to swallow.
I've been asked several times throughout the duration of this school "Why do you do what you do? What motivates you?" After trying to answer this question on my own several times (looking for something profound and inspiring) the Lord finally gave me the answer. Worship. My life is about worship, its our number one calling, that's why we were created. And by dedicating my life to missions, using the gifts God has given me, is the greatest act of worship I can ever give to my Heavenly Father.
I know I've rambled on (for years now) in my news/support letters, about how I want my life to be more then me. I want it to reflect the Christ in me and fulfill all the plans he has made me for. But I just can't get enough of thinking and writing about Him emphasising this in me. He wants all of our soul...When is the last time we lived our day in full for nothing else but to worship God? Not to feed the hungry, not to sing a song in church, but to really just bless God's heart.
I WILL get burned out if I work in missions off my own strength just to help the needy....But my passion for wanting to please God wont ever burn out if i continue to seek the Lord daily....because there is so much of him, that there will forever be a reason to be amazed.

^{Amos 5
21-24}"I can't stand your religious meetings. 

   I'm fed up with your conferences and conventions.
I want nothing to do with your religion projects, 
   your pretentious slogans and goals.
I'm sick of your fund-raising schemes, 
   your public relations and image making.
I've had all I can take of your noisy ego-music. 
   When was the last time you sang to me?
Do you know what I want? 
   I want justice—Its what my heart is full of, I want oceans of it.
I want fairness and peace—rivers of it. 
   That's what I want. That's all I want."
James 1:27
"Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress {to LOVE one another} and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world."


Of course getting more spiritually fed and having deep profound thoughts, isn't all I've been doing here. We've had weeks of practical (long term) mission field work. Such as; "Water and Sanitation" (learning that the number two killer in developing countries is diarrhea which can be dimensioned by thousands if they knew how to just wash their hands properly.) Learning how to build latrines and wells. Weeks on "How to start your own NGO or come alongside an already existing." Learning how to come into communities properly, to live among them, gaining there trust. Making there struggles your struggles, their dreams, your dreams. Finally realizing, You can't change the world until you change peoples Hearts, perspectives, self worth....relationships with each other, and ultimately, God.  
SO, the plan from here? I'm not headed off to a far of place in the jungles of Africa right away. I'm going to continue to live in this new light and knowledge He has given me. I'm going to finish out the next 6 weeks strong. And as of right now,head back to the mission field at home. Purse God's heart in medical missions, understanding the spiritual root and what God has to say about diseases and sickness. Working and studying from both home and overseas (Haiti mostly). 


Please continue to stand with me in prayer for direction in missions and for God's kingdom to come here on earth, in my own heart so that I will be fully equipped for the next assignment. And Please send me prayer request and updates on your lives as well. I Love them :)


-Kourney Hetrick

"For we are God's masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago." Eph. 2:10 My Team :)

Lifting the Veil; When Helping Hurts

Its a dangerous place I'm stepping into. The farther you go with God, the deeper your responsibility and life becomes. You start to see people, creation and the whole world the way Christ intended us to see it.  And you can no longer ignore the problem.
I thought I knew a lot about missions work before I came here...I was the first to rise to occasion when the words "Orphans" or "hunger"  was mentioned. But slowly, being humbled every step of the way, I'm learning that not only do I know nothing....but the majority of the work and "help" I was giving...may have caused more damage then good.


                                                .................What I'm Learning So Far...


When Helping Hurts
Being made in God’s image, human beings are inherently relational and have a divine responsibilities to the world that the Creator left in our care.  What exactly is our responsibility after we've prayed "the sinners prayer". When does the "taking up of the cross" start? <--- these questions and comments are nothing new of course. We've all seen cries for help and been apart of an incredible plan bigger then ourselves. But here's something you may not have considered before:
What exactly is poverty? and, Is it possible that we are all living in a state of poverty?

When the question was first asked---of course I said "no". Americans are not in a state of poverty, and its insane to even try to compare us to developing countries  such as South Africa or Haiti.

But once we took a look at what the bible would define "poverty" as, I was quickly corrected. 

Like mentioned above, Being made in God’s image, human beings are inherently relational. So when we work out of the perfect combination and order of relationship...we find ourselves "poor in spirit."....and can become physically poor.

A) Relationship with God – This is our primary relationship, the other 

three relationships flowing out of this one. The Westminster Shorter 

Catechism teaches that human beings’ primary purpose is ‘to glorify 

God and to enjoy Him forever.’ This is our calling, the ultimate reason 

for which we were created.  

B) Relationship with Self – People are uniquely created in the image of 

God and thus have inherent worth and dignity. 

C) Relationship with Others – God created us to live in loving 

relationship with one another. We are not islands! 

D) Relationship with the Rest of Creation – The ‘cultural mandate’ of 

Genesis 1:28-30 teaches that God created us to be stewards, people 

who understand, subdue, and manage the world that God has 

created in order to produce bounty. 

Obviously, America, the church, and my own community lack highly in some of these areas. 

How can I even comprehend the healing of others without fulling understanding what God's intentions for His people are. 

I think in a lot of ways we tend to think that as Americans, we are the solution to all the worlds problems, and if we hop on a plane with water bottles, food and a blue print for a sustainable water well, then we've successfully checked off all the "essentials" for the trip and we're good to go. This, however, is not the case. 

The Creator calling the creation.
Real needs vs. American needs
"Stop coming into MY community and assuming YOU are the answer to all the "alleged problems."
I mean, are we even asking the community if they want...or need a well? More often then not, the answer is, no. Although its a beautiful dream and desire to bring amazing ideas, like wells, to third world countries, and some times (often even) they do need the wells. (And I am definitely not bashing anyone who has ever or will ever build a well in Africa's desert lands.) Don't misunderstand....But here's what's happening; We never took the time to become apart of the community. We didn't do life with them, and therefore have no history of there values, culture, religious views, education, etc. How do we know that after the well is built and we leave, that they aren't doing some kind of animal sacrifice to their gods in the water that completely decontaminates it, doing (in the long run) more harm then it did good. (Yes, that's an actual example.)
Lets do life with our brothers and sisters. Lets learn from them as much as we've come to teach.
Let's start at the root of the problem; Their worth, their value...their relationship with God and His creation. Doing this....could take months....even years. You have to build their trust...and make their life your life, their dreams your dreams, their problems so real to you, that you seek a solution as a community, using the resources around you. Lets show them every side of Gods heart: Physical, Spiritual, Wisdom and Social. God got his hands dirty. But he also sought the heart out. Both must become essential on the mission field. People are the worlds greatest resource <--- God says so.
Lets humble ourselves and agree we know nothing and we are nothing.


The "4 P's" to the Mission field.
Prayer ---in everything
Passion---for the community you've dedicated your time to
Perseverance---Don't limit God with a time block....real results can take years...decades and we might only be the seed. We may never see the harvest.
Patience---Wait on God's timing. And understand that trust takes time and answers will be made in God's timing. America tends to want to microwave the world. We want results instantly. 


For a long time I've said "I want to be the hands and feet of Christ." And I do...but I want much more then just the hands and feet. I want the mouth, the mind and the heart. 

1 out of 6.8 billion

         I have to be honest....although in my honesty, its important to know - YWAM is one of those places that has a way of taking you by surprise and flips all your plans up-side-down.
        Knowing I was going to be celebrating my 21st birthday away from home wasn't exactly the highlight of my going away gifts, which was why I was nearly brought to tears at the way the Lord provided so abundantly on January 11, 2012.
         I woke up to two of my (already) good friends climbing into bed with me and singing "happy birthday" at the obnoxious hour of 7am. Once they finished their (lovely, I might add) version of the classic American birthday song, they announced that it had snowed all night and the weather was continuing to blanket our campus into a beautiful winter wonderland. The Lord knows us so well :)
Snow is one of my favorite creations. The day continued on, receiving unexpected gifts....(including one from the amazing Laura Pickard...thank you!!) and other over the top blessings. Just SOME of the ways our Heavenly Father chose to dote upon me on my special day. It was really a humbling day when looking back....a simple reminder that our God sees even the little things...and takes those into account when creating the day before us.

SO far school has been about facts and figures. What to expect and just what exactly we've gotten ourselves into. The basic outline, for all those who have been asking: 


 The Community Development For Missions School is designed to equip students with the mind set and skills to bring deep and lasting transformation to hurting communities.  The foundation of the school is a biblical understanding of the root causes of poverty and our response as followers of Christ.  

During the school experienced practitioners will teach key concepts in community development and common pitfalls to avoid.  Students will be introduced to the challenges faced by people in developing countries and explore how we can best help.  A graduate of the school will be equipped with practical tools, resources and contacts to pursue their specific area of interest.

Today we talked about what exactly "Poverty" is. Why and how it happens.

We came up with several conclusions, most of which (we all agreed) is the result of a spiritual bind the enemy has over these countries. Slavery of the mind. Lack of natural resources. Lack of education. Sickness. Lack of sanitation. Greed. Laziness (expecting hand outs). Hopelessness. Slavery of a corrupt government. etc.

Some crazy statistics 

World Population

• 6.8 billion¹

World Hunger

• 925 million people do not have enough to eat — more than the populations of USA, Canada and the European Union combined.²

• 98% of the world's undernourished people live in developing countries.²

• Two-thirds of the world's hungry live in just 7 countries: Bangladesh, China, the Democratic Republic of the Congo, Ethiopia, India, Indonesia and Pakistan.²
• Where is hunger the worst?
  • Asia and the Pacific: 578 million³
  • Sub-Saharan Africa: 239 million³
  • Latin America and the Caribbean: 53 million³
  • Near East and North Africa: 37 million³
  • Developed countries: 19 million³

  • Women and Children

    • 60 percent of the world's hungry are women.⁴
    • 50 percent of pregnant women in developing countries lack proper maternal care, resulting in over 300,000 maternal deaths annually from childbirth.⁴
    • 1 out of 6 infants are born with a low birth weight in developing countries.⁵
    • A third of all childhood death in sub-Saharan Africa is caused by hunger.⁶
    • Every five seconds, a child dies from hunger-related diseases.⁶
    
    
    
    
    
    Basically....this ^ is my calling for this season in my life....
    I'll be training, researching and praying - to equip myself to get to the root of these problems. 
    I can't wait to see where God takes me with all this...I'll be praying dillegently this semester for answers on where the Lord plans to put me after school. There are a lot of options, and part of my heart feels that the Lord may be asking me to lay Haiti down for a bit and walk in a new path....Its a scarry.... and exciting feeling at the same time. I'm reminded more often lately of the verse in Proverbs:
    
    

    "In his heart a man plans his course, but the            LORD determines his steps." Be in prayer with me about God's heart for the world...and His heart for this season in my life. Lots of love <3 Thank you all so much again for all the support you've given and continue to give.